It’s that time in the afternoon when your lunch sits snugly in your stomach creating all that haziness inside your head. You are so exhausted and drained and your mind just stops working right away. You know exactly what has to be done but you won’t, because your body wouldn’t stop resisting itself.
Let’s face it! We have all been there at some point of time.
Most people fail to turn themselves into who they wish to be, and only grudge about their situation but wouldn’t do anything to change it and then, there are those, who take up that one step and make it happen!
So what is it that differentiates these two kinds of people?
When someone needs a change, he needs to work on making that change. And most people don’t work on their dreams. WHY?
One most important fact is because they FEAR
- The Fear Of Failure – ‘What if things don’t work out?’
- The Fear Of Success – ‘What if I do it and later I cannot handle it?’
These are not RISK TAKERS!
You spend so much of time with other people, you spend so much of time trying to be those people, you spend so much of time trying to get people to like you. You start knowing other people more than you know your own self. You look at them carefully, you study them, you know about them, want to party like them, hang out like them, you constantly want to be just like them. And all this while, you have simply spent, or rather invested so much of time on others that you’ve forgotten
WHO YOU ARE!
Spend time by yourself – I dare you to take up this challenge.
If you want to live your dream, it is extremely important to first get the losers out of your life.
Remember, life has an extra-ordinary meaning to those who run after their dreams. And when you do this, you suddenly become “the right person” and thus you are able to differentiate yourself from the other people. You become this UNIQUE person. When you follow other people, when you try to imitate them, when you try to copy them, you can, never in your lifetime, be the best COPY CAT. But when you’re unique, you can be the BEST OF WHO YOU ARE.
Define your worth
When you begin to know what your worthy of, not everyone will be able to see it, not everyone will start liking what you’re doing, not everybody will follow you or join you, not everyone will have the same vision as yours. You are not any random person.
If you want to attract people to your vision, to your business, you will have to align yourself with those people who are craving to meet someone like you, to meet people who are unconditionally unreasonable, people who are unstoppable, people who just don’t settle for how they live their lives and want more.
The people who are living their dreams, very well know that if it is going to happen, it is completely up to them to make it happen.
If you want to be successful, if you want to take up and do those things you have never done before, then you have to BE THE CHANGE, you have to simply INVEST IN YOURSELF!
When someone gives their opinion about you, says something about you, it is up to you to take it up or not. You know WHY? Because what they say does not have to become your reality! Because you don’t have to go through life, being a victim, being the person whom others will pity.
I do not know what it is that you dream of; I don’t care how difficult or how disappointing it must’ve been for you to get that dream, but I do care and I know for sure that the dream that you have been holding up in your head, in your mind, IT IS POSSIBLE!
You already know, that it is hard, it isn’t easy to change your life. And that, while you’re trying to achieve your dreams, there will incur a lot of hardships, many obstacles, those you wouldn’t have even thought about.
You will face a lot of DISAPPOINTMENT
You will face a lot of FAILURE
You will go through a lot of PAIN
There will be instances when you are going to doubt yourself. You will say “WHY ME? Even when I have done nothing wrong! So WHY DOES THIS HAVE TO HAPPEN ONLY TO ME?”
When you come across a situation like this, DON’T GIVE UP ON YOUR DREAMS!
‘THE ROUGH TIMES WILL COME, BUT THEY WILL NOT COME TO STAY, THEY WILL PASS.’
It is very important for you to believe that YOU ARE THE ONE!
You have to know that there will be risks, big time risks, there will be disappointments and failures and not everyone is going to stand by you, support you, or see it the way you do. And that’s when you must realize, that even if no one sees it in me, I must see it for myself.
Say this to yourself then,
No matter how it is, or how worse it gets, I WILL MAKE IT!
I dare you to be alone, I dare you to invest in your time, I dare you spend time to know yourself better.
When you become who you are, who you want to be, who you become what you were created to be, designed the way you were designed to be, that is when you become an individual, when you start distinguishing yourself from others.
Be at the place you always wanted to be – I dare you to take up this challenge!
Because when you get to that place, these “other people” are not going to like you and are not even going to bother you anymore. And you shouldn’t be bothered either because you are not responsible to make them happy, because you are going to get on to the next level.
So if you are still talking about your dreams, if your are still talking about your goals, if you are still talking about that vision, and you have not done anything about it yet, JUST TAKE THAT FIRST STEP.
When you focus on problems, you will have more problems; but when you focus on opportunities, you will have more progress.
IF YOU WANT YOUR DREAM LIFE, YOU HAVE TO CREATE IT!
People will not believe in you, you will lose and lose again and again and again, but you must keep working on your dream, focusing on it, reminding yourself of it every day and say to yourself,
IT’S NOT OVER UNTIL I HAVE ACHIEVED IT!
YOU CAN LIVE YOUR DREAM!
And soon the people who didn’t believe in you will be the ones to tell everyone how they know you because
YOU INVESTED IN YOURSELF!